Considerations to Make When Picking Sympathy Flowers

Choosing sympathy flowers is a thoughtful act of expressing condolences and offering comfort during a difficult time. It’s a way to show support for those who are grieving and to honor the memory of the deceased. 

At Rockcastle Florist, we understand the sensitivity of this gesture and want to provide guidance to help you select an arrangement that is both meaningful and appropriate. Here are several important considerations to keep in mind when choosing sympathy flowers.

Your Relationship to the Deceased and the Bereaved

The closeness of your relationship often dictates the type and size of the floral tribute.

• Immediate Family: Typically choose larger, more personal arrangements like casket sprays or standing sprays. They might also opt for specific flowers that held significance for the deceased.
• Extended Family and Close Friends: Often send standing sprays, wreaths, or large vase arrangements to the funeral home or service. These arrangements represent a significant expression of sympathy.
• Friends, Colleagues, and Acquaintances: May choose smaller vase arrangements, sympathy baskets, or plants sent to the funeral home or directly to the family's residence. These are thoughtful gestures of support and care.

The Deceased's Personality and Preferences

If you were aware of the deceased’s favorite flowers, colors, or even their general style, incorporating these elements can create a more personal and meaningful tribute. A vibrant arrangement for someone who loved bright colors or a simple bouquet of their favorite bloom can be a touching way to honor their memory.

The Family's Wishes

It is crucial to be mindful of the family's preferences. Sometimes, the obituary or a family member will specify "in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to..." Respecting these wishes is paramount. If flowers are welcome, there might still be a preference for certain types or colors. When in doubt, a simple and elegant arrangement in traditional sympathy colors (white, soft pastels) is usually appropriate.

The Location and Type of Service

Consider where the flowers will be displayed:

• Funeral Home: Standing sprays, wreaths, and larger vase arrangements are common here, providing a visual tribute during the viewing and service.
• Church or Memorial Service: Similar arrangements as for a funeral home are suitable.
• Graveside Service: Smaller, portable arrangements that can be placed near the burial site are often chosen.
• Sending to the Family's Home: Vase arrangements, sympathy baskets (which may include flowers, plants, and comforting items), or plants are thoughtful choices that the family can appreciate in their own space after the services.

The Meaning and Symbolism of Flowers

Different flowers carry different meanings, which can add another layer of significance to your sympathy gesture:

• Lilies: Often symbolize purity, sympathy, and the soul's return to innocence. White lilies are particularly common.
• Roses: White roses denote reverence, innocence, and purity; red roses express deep love and sorrow; pink roses symbolize grace, gentleness, and admiration.
• Carnations: White carnations represent pure love and innocence; pink carnations signify remembrance.
• Chrysanthemums (Mums): In the United States, mums are often associated with sympathy and mourning.
• Orchids: Symbolize enduring love and sympathy, offering a long-lasting tribute.
• Peace Lilies: As a living plant, they represent peace, hope, and sympathy.

Your Budget

Sympathy flowers are available in a wide range of prices. It’s important to choose an arrangement that is meaningful to you and within your budget. The sincerity of your gesture is what truly matters most. A thoughtful, smaller arrangement can be just as impactful as a grand display.

Presentation and Card Message

Ensure the arrangement is tasteful and appropriate for a somber occasion. Include a card with a personal message expressing your condolences. Keep your message sincere, supportive, and brief. Sharing a positive memory of the deceased can be particularly comforting to the bereaved.

Rockcastle Florist is Here to Help You Pick Sympathy Flowers 

At Rockcastle Florist, our experienced and compassionate team is here to guide you through the process of selecting sympathy flowers. We understand the importance of this gesture and will handle your order with care and sensitivity, helping you convey your heartfelt condolences with grace and respect while helping you pick out the perfect flowers. Please don't hesitate to reach out to Rockcastle Florist to experience our personalized assistance during this difficult time.